i thought i just might make this thing for anyone who wants to talk about something. i dont know if theres something like this, if there is, my bad.

Dear angel

Well there is something I want to get of my chest.

my story starts about 6 years ago...
it was a rainy october night night, leeds were playing crap so i turned over the telly, i sat there watching a programme about australain swamp dogs, when there was a knock at the door. when i went to answer it, i noticed that one of the rose bushes growing in next door garden was lilting at a strange angle, most people would of just put this down to the wind, but the curry i had eaten for tea wasn't working that fast. i went back inside and had a kip on the sofa. next time i open my eyes it was the next day so i went to work. by then i had forgotten all about the rose. Infact the next time i thought about it wasn't untill last year, by then it had gone. now what im wondering is, if i had acted earlier, could i have saved the rose. It was a pretty nice yorkshire rose wich was rather odd because it had a distinctive blue stripe on its stem, which on closer inspection could of been some left over package, but either way it was rather fetching. Which brings me to my point, what i would like to get off my chest

well its the curry stain from that night 6 years ago, both times i've tried to wash it off, the soap hasn't touched it, any suggestions please.

... you are tryin to wash a stain out... are you serious? i dont know if you are messin wit me, or are serious. but here it goes

Keep dipping article in lukewarm water until the majority of the colour is removed. Using equal parts of glycerine and warm water rub into the stain, then rinse with cold water. Soak in biological detergent, wash as usual.

just look on the internet

Dear Mr Angel

This may not seem like a big deal but it's something that's been playing on my mind. I don't seem to be able to reach anywhere near a state of depression. Most of the time I'm a happy, regular guy and I've been known to experience a state of euphoria on a number of occassions.

However I still can't get depressed. It's beginning to worry me which is good because this might lead to depression but unfortunately my old happy go lucky smiley inner self starts to kick in and I'm at peace once again.

Any ideas?

can you explain the euphoria a little, im not really familiar with that... but with the not being able to get depressed... thats almost a blessing. i dont know why you would really want to be depressed, but that is your choice. i dont know you that well, so its hard to do a lot, especially with something like that.

umm, if there is something that has happened in your life rather severe, that made you sad, but not depressed, or if you lost a loved one, or a bad relationship or something.

i looked it up, and there isnt a known way to get arid of this... i dont know what to say if this dont help, this is more serious than i thought.. i dont know, if you want a friend to help you through, just pm me, and well talk, and try to figure something out.

I think Norfolk Rob is pulling your leg, being an Arsenal supporter, he must have had waves of depression over the last two years.

well howa bout you, were you bein serious... i somehow doubt it...

The last couple of years has been fairly pain free supporting the gunners. I can remember one time however. It was back in the days when there was still terracing at Highbury. It was a freezing cold December and the driving rain was being blown into my face even though I was under the roof off the North Bank. Arsenal were about 15th in the old first division. There were only about 16,000 people at the game. We lost 1 nil to Coventry. On the train on the way home back to Bicester I got robbed by some Chlesea lads on the way back to Banbury.

I felt depressed that day

I don't even think this character really is the Lords Angel you know?

ok, well first off, its would be kinda hard to be an angel, all it is is a name






umm, well, if thinking about it makes you depressed, and if you really want to be depressed, than that may be the only way...

[quote name='TheLordsAngel' date='Feb 13 2007, 03:29 PM' post='364398']
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I don't even think this character really is the Lords Angel you know?
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ok, well first off, its would be kinda hard to be an angel, all it is is a name




I knew it...............how clever am i?

o yeah, im an angel come from above to save the world

Dear Mr Angel

How about you? Don't you feel depressed sometimes? It must be hard always being on the receiving end of other peoples grief. Do you have someone you can talk to? The guys at BUKF are your friends. Come and tell us what's bothering you. We're here to help.

actually, there area lot of things that bother me, but i dont let those things bother other people. do i feel depressed sometimes? yes, i feel depressed all the time, and life sucks all the time, and especially today, valentines day, gets me real down.... yes i have my own problems, but i dont wanna bother other people with them.

You're trying to help out people with depression so it seems. How qualified (life experience, eduction etc ) are you to do this?

how qualified am i? well, in education, i guess im not qualified at all, although in life experience, i have quite a bit of experience. ive been helping for four years now, and ive helped from simple dating problems rape and things like that. i have done a lot in my school, and done a lot over the internet helping people. theres nothing wrong with trying to help people out...

You're right, there isnt. I was just interested to know.

And with people telling you about their experiences with depression (at least, thats what you asked for i think) you should know something about the illness to give out advice. I'm not saying you dont know anything about it, mind..

i know what you talk about it, i know about the illness, i go through it everyday... although there are timeswhen i wasnt depressed, and i was actually happy... i know all about the illness, and doing these kind of things help me understand it even more. the way of helping everyone changes with each person, and that is why i enjoy helping, so that i might learn what i have to do to help people through whatever comes.

I could prob put you in touch with about 70 people right now who would test your experience to the maximum!

i might just have you do this... i might enjoy that

I work in a mental health unit, trust me you are not experienced enough!

i may not be quite that experienced, but im still good enough to help out most people, and at least i do it for free

Why do you think you are good enough?

Why should anyone speak to you about their problems?

I think you should be very careful about the advice you hand out to people who are very depresssed.

well said fg, there is no substitude for the correct care

people can tell me there problems if they want, its their choice, i am not pressuring anyone to do something they dont want... i just wanted a spot were they can say something and not be judged by anyone. i believe i know what i am doing, i havent hurt instead of helped anyone, but i know that someday i will do something wrong. all i try to do is help people, but its up to them if they want help or not

Thank you ice

I think if anyone wants to truly try to help someone who is depressed then the advice they should be offering is contacting a professional.

I'm sure you have started this thread with the best of intentions but in all honesty it's a minefield. You could quite easily do a lot of damage without meaning to. I doubt you'll get any serious replies anyway but to be honest I'd leave it alone.

its worth a shot, and for the professionals, sometimes its only minor problems, and sometimes they dont wanna spend the money

When I feel down, I have a wank, it occupies the mind and body for between 2-10 minutes (depending on who you're thinking about) and afterwards my spirit feels lifted

thats a nice thought, lol so much for keeping this thing on topic... if anyone wants to pm me, go right ahead, im always open to make friends... and to help people out

I give up

you taught me all I know

Now thats a depressing thought

thanks for the support guys...

Hi angel

Well i thought i would share me feeling with you in this thread.

I am feeling depressed. The reason being is that a mate on here, that shall remain nameless to spare his blush's, will not be able to reply to this or any other of my posts, untill it has been sanctioned by a mod first. That means im gonna have to wait hours or even days, to see a reply from him. The only thing i can think of doing, to kill the time untill his reply appears, is to read through his old posts.

The only problem with that is it will take me ages to find one that he doesn't show himself up in.

I know it will only be a matter before i get withdrawal symptons, so what can i do.

well, why do his replies get sanctioned??? i dont know that i can do anything about that... except maybe find out how to get ahold of his some other way

all right, im just gonna go to a different forum... you guys really dont care, from what i can tell, all your doin is fuckin round... so yeah, i guess im movin on

This is what depresses me: http://bestukforums.co.uk/index.php?showto...pid=365579&

Can you kindly confirm that what I posted is correct?

Bye

ooooohhhhhh touchy

*sigh* is this all you do, tell jokes and make fun of people... how disappointing.

Yea frivolity, enjoying yourself online and having fun is so disappointing.

I really hope you don't find anyone who takes you seriously as that person will probably be in real need of professional help (which you dont actually always have to pay for) and may actually pay heed to some of the bilge that you post. Lord help them and not some farce pretending to be one of His angels.

I'm always suspicious and cynical of people offering to give advice, especially on such big subjects such as this. He might be genuine, he might not be, but opening a thread asking for people to post their woes for him to dish out advice is the wrong way to go about it, and is, to be honest, asking for people to take the piss.

.. in my opinion

Brilliant, if you ever need a job Effers i can sure use you in my office!



Strange because that's my take on this whole thing too. Great minds eh?





I thought you'd thrown a strop and gone?

I had one of those look in the mirror and think "you look f****** old" moments today............that was depressing

the lords angel leaving has depressed me.